Visitor research and focus groups tend to just point to the last cool thing they saw. I know news channels seem unable to report on a story without adding the view of some person from Frinton, or a text or email. Maybe an unscientific poll. But does this really add value?
The web is an ever emerging arena, monitor visitor statistics (and sales!). Understand what's working for you and the issues your visitors are interested in.
Get out there and do it. Have a Facebook account, get on Twitter, blog, have a personal website. Make a video, upload it. Master the black arts! I'm a volunteer canoe coach, I can show folks how to do paddle strokes, that's the easy bit. However it's only by going off themselves and paddling, that they will really learn. It's the same with technology.
It's up to us to come up with new, innovative and creative sales/lead generating and attention grabbing ideas. If you just look at your competition, your site will look like your competition. Look at the best in class, look for innovation and learn and adapt.
Don't rely on a text from that person in Frinton!